My relationship with, and eventual marriage to, Mike did not come quickly and easily. I first met him when my roommate, Martha, had him come to our apartment to fix my computer. From that night, we had a friendship and chemistry. We tried dating a couple of times, each ending in disaster. Fortunately, we still maintained a quirky and close friendship.
Mike has been different from every other guy. In addition to being kind, he’s sensitive, funny, and smart. We understand each other in ways that no one else does. We often joke that it’s good we found each other because no one else would put up with us. Like me, he has his own faults. But he is someone I hope my girls look to when they decide who’s good enough to spend their lives with.
If he spontaneously dances with you in the kitchen…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he can come up with the same lame joke you’re thinking…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he is willing to share in the household duties without complaint…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he does some of those duties without having to be asked…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he thinks it’s cute that you giggled a little at the word “duty”…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he spends his birthday with you in a hospital waiting room because you don’t want to go alone to your first MRI…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he will get up and take care of your baby during the night without complaint…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he will bring you Sprite and saltines when you’re not even dating because you are unbelievably hung over…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he encourages you in your own dreams and ambitions…he’s a keeper ladies.
If he doesn’t make you feel like you need to be someone other than yourself…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he treats you with respect, and not as a sex object…he’s a keeper, ladies.
If he doesn’t understand why you don’t want to share dessert…keep looking. I’m sure there’s someone out there who’s perfect for you.